Jerkwad. I don't know why people (can they even be called people?) think they can lie and treat other people so badly. You do have every right to be angry and unreasonable.
Wow... just read your recent posts... how shitty for you! What a chicken shit liar of a man.... to BOTH you and his "friend!" I hope you are able to use this anger to push on with your journey away from this man who causes you such pain!
Now that you know this last piece of information, cut all ties, and let him deal with the mess he's made.
Hugs to you. There are a lot of us in your corner!
sin...I liked your "fuck reasonableness"....its not a matter of feeling lied to...he has lied by omission. He has been having a relationship with someone else. Now I know in essence he didn't have to tell me, I know that, however to had a child with her is a completely different matter................this will change everyone's life, priorities(and I would be upset if it didn't change his). I feel lied to and betrayed, this is on top of all the other crap that is unfolding. HSxx
cassie...thank you I am trying, but its a bit like when you have something importunate to do and you clean out the garage instead..........I'm putting off the inevitable melt down, sobbing snot filled tears stained pillow with drunken text at 2am...ho hum! HSxx
SBS...thank you...it is so difficult to cut ties when I am so far away, it will take months as I cant go home yet, I will have to send my bestie round to get my stuff and store it, I can sort out the practical stuff, my heart and soul will take longer...and thank you for being in my corner,:) HSxx
Okay - fuck reasonableness. No one likes being lied to and if you feel you were, you have every right to be mad!
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*Hugs*
ReplyDeleteGo beat up a sandbag!
Jerkwad. I don't know why people (can they even be called people?) think they can lie and treat other people so badly. You do have every right to be angry and unreasonable.
ReplyDeleteO. Yes. That he is. "Rat Bastard" was what came to my mind.
ReplyDeletemany hugs,
aisha
Hang in there HS!
ReplyDeleteStay strong!
Love and hugs,
cassie
Wow... just read your recent posts... how shitty for you! What a chicken shit liar of a man.... to BOTH you and his "friend!" I hope you are able to use this anger to push on with your journey away from this man who causes you such pain!
ReplyDeleteNow that you know this last piece of information, cut all ties, and let him deal with the mess he's made.
Hugs to you. There are a lot of us in your corner!
SBS
sin...I liked your "fuck reasonableness"....its not a matter of feeling lied to...he has lied by omission. He has been having a relationship with someone else. Now I know in essence he didn't have to tell me, I know that, however to had a child with her is a completely different matter................this will change everyone's life, priorities(and I would be upset if it didn't change his). I feel lied to and betrayed, this is on top of all the other crap that is unfolding.
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Mindset......please knit me a sandbag and send it to me in 'far away land' and i will beat the crap out of it! You made me smile. HSxx
ReplyDeleteConina...I think its lack of respect.:(
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aisha...hahah Rat Bastard....
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cassie...thank you I am trying, but its a bit like when you have something importunate to do and you clean out the garage instead..........I'm putting off the inevitable melt down, sobbing snot filled tears stained pillow with drunken text at 2am...ho hum!
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SBS...thank you...it is so difficult to cut ties when I am so far away, it will take months as I cant go home yet, I will have to send my bestie round to get my stuff and store it, I can sort out the practical stuff, my heart and soul will take longer...and thank you for being in my corner,:)
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